🎈Your I-Vite Event Messages

Jon Villanueva said: “Hi T. I did it. I know I said I didn’t think I could go through with it, or, maybe what I said was ‘I didn’t know if I should…’ Anyway. Everything you talked me through was so important and helpful to me. Truly. But, I dunno. I just thought about what would happen if I didn’t move forward, and instead retreated back, and I thought about the kids, the family, the home I’d never had. All of it. And I just didn’t know if I could take that kind of regret one day. Not to say that I won’t have regrets with this, but, I mean, what if I decide when I’m 60 I have to be a dad, kinda late, right? Like we talked about, the whole thing is such a weird set up: gotta go through all this business to get the family, and all that. You already know all about it. The point is, that I asked C to marry me and she said yes, and I’m doing it! Crazy, so crazy. Anyway, most important for you is that I’m not really sure it makes sense to come to your event, since it’s not really me solo…Would it be weird if I brought her? LMK. I don’t want to put you in a bad place. I also want you to know that even though I’m doing this, everything we talked about – like, every single thing – stuck with me and meant something. Truly. This is just, how I have to go forward I guess. Also, wanted to let you know I already asked C and she said for sure you should be invited to our wedding (no real plans yet), and I do have some pretty cool friends you might get along with. I know we talked about that not really being what you’re all about, but maybe by then you’ll be ready. Anyway, just let me know about the plus one to this event or if I should skip out since I’m def not single anymore 😉 J.”

You replied: “Oh my gosh, Jonny boy. That’s amazing. Congratulations! Yeah, I am trying to keep the shindig to bonafide single peeps, but thanks for asking. And congrats again. She’s a lucky lady.”